Friday, October 24, 2008

My thoughts on Polygamy

aren't that sophisticated. I thought it was weird when I first heard about it and glad that my church doesn't practice polygamy anymore. However, it can be a real crutch to people who are trying to find reasons why our church isn't good. This may be a reason why they might not join it or claim it to be the reason why they fell away.

It never was an issue for me. I took more of a rational approach to it that many societies have in fact practiced some type of plural marriage and many are still practicing plural marriages. It has been part of life for a loooooong time people and the church had its reasons for it way back when.

I found this article on CNN about (click)Polyandry (one wife, two husbands) I found rather interesting and actually pretty cool. In this subculture in India they practice polyandry for traditional and economic reasons. Some women may have more than a couple husbands depending on how many brothers there are. Plural marriage is illegal in India however the government has not enforced it.

I really found this village to be quite unpolluted of the world's influence on this topic. To them it's not about sex. It's about tradition, economics, and that's it. I think often times us Americans focus on the sex part. When we think about Warren Jeff's and others of his group we think about the immorality of it all and the victimization of young girls. We immediately suspect that sex is the underlying reason for this lifestyle. I don't know. But with this village in India, plural marriage is part of life, it's not looked at as something nasty and they've made it work.

I prefer to only see this lifestyle as part of indigenous groups and much prefer polyandry than polygamy.
If I lived in India, this would be it for me!! Wow....EEW....Disturbing....

8 comments:

Natalie Jensen said...

I don't know if you ever got into a polygamy discussion with Mikaela's family...it gets really heated. I am glad that it is not practiced now, cause I don't want to share my husband with anyone. I would have to be asked by the prophet himself AND receive a spiritual confirmation to even start to consider it. Guess it is a good thing I know THAT won't happen!

lucy said...

darn, I missed out. I bet it was a good one!!

the narrator said...
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the narrator said...

did you have to bring me into your polyandrous fantasy?

CUTRER said...

I told Paul that if it where still around I told him she would have to be dog ugly and a doctor so that she can support me! LOL He tells me he can only handel one wife why would he want more..

jkziel said...

LOVED the way you ended the post. too perfect.

Carson Calderwood said...

Hey Lloyd, even I fantasize about you three.

Tiffany said...

I am laughing my head off about the end of your post! Could make for an awkward Thanksgiving dinner, though!